Popcorn for the Soul – Change is Boring
Wow! I thought long and hard about the title of this post… Yet, it pretty much sums up how I feel about change 🙂
Soooo, to hell with change. It’s boring, it’s overrated and it is designed to keep you small and play safe. Why? Because, it (change) is easy.
There is nothing exciting about it, it comes and it goes, and before you know it, you are back to your old routine, and patterns, doing what you know and playing it safe. Also, there is something about the change that links it to fear. How? Please continue reading 🙂 !
Once change happens, there is this little inner gremlin going: ah, but I wonder how long it will last, what will happen when temptations arise, the Universe is testing you…It feels like the exam finals where you are barely reaching the low pass mark, and one wrong step/answer, and you’ve failed!!! That’s change in a nutshell. It’s superficial and boring!
Transformation is the real deal
What you want is transformation. Evolutionary revolutionary transformation. Digging deep below the surface. Starting to experience life on a whole new level.
Transformation may not be easy, but it’s doable. It does require that you pull out all your resources, that you show up, and that you do the work. And it is going to be you who have to do the work. No one else can do it for you.
You see, to start something big, to decide to change, to embrace a full blown transformation, it takes guts! It takes enormous amount of courage…and grace! Yes Grace! The Law of Grace! And the Law of Continuity! And the Law of Consistency – The Law of LOCA 🙂 !
So let me ask you a question?
Now…When do you think would be the right time to step up, and embrace your new life? Embrace your new destiny? How about now?
Are you ready? If so, let’s begin!
Your greatest allies
First of all, we’d like you to:
Start practicing living in a state of constant and uninterrupted marvel!
How? By simply savouring and appreciating every single moment of your day, and noticing how your state changes. This will need to include some modifications to your daily routine: no gossiping, no judging, no hanging out with low vibe tribe, but instead, living from your heart, shining the light of your Soul. You may want to start a journal and jotting down your new experiences! It’s easy! Don’ t TRY it! DO it!
Then, still from that state of childlike marvel and wonder, may we ask you to spend some time figuring out your WHYs? Why is it important for you to embark on this journey of full transformation? We’d like you to check for a moment whether your reasons are externally or internally motivated? In other words, are you permanently competing with others, and vying for their approval and validation, or are you motivated by internal joy. In short, what is your overall intention?
And once you’ve figured this out, still being in a state of uninterrupted marvel and wonder, we’d like you to have a little chat with your inner voice, the one that is supportive, the one that is responsible for all the learnings, the one that protects you, the one that only has your best interests at heart. Some call it inner guide, others instinct. In NLP, we refer to it as Unconscious.
And while you are engaging in the quiet conversation, ask it to support you? Ask it to guide you to how you need to show up? What kind of person do you need to become in order to experience this transformation and start living the life you deserve? You may want to ask it to add an extra dose of courage…And watch the magic unfold!
Let us know who you get on!
Your full of wonder and marvel trainers,
Lidija & Thomas
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Lidija Marković Rosati – International NLP Trainer, Master Coach, Psychological Counsellor and Hypnotherapist
Thomas Björge – International NLP Trainer, Master Coach and Hypnotherapist